There are some basic imbalances in the relationships shared by Virgo and Sagittarius as they are like almost two different directions with nothing particularly much in common. The best thing they usually share is the communication and interaction on daily basis.
Virgo are genius people with their wonderful analytical and logical ways of thinking. They are very concrete people with strong intellect and in-depth information of all the aspects of life. Virgo can effortlessly explore a situation and can be pretty critical regarding it, if needed. They are often ill, but at the same time they are health freaks. Virgo tend to hide their feelings of hurt which later turn into resentment for those who had hurt them. It is hard for Virgo to interpret their emotions and feelings. They fear any form of binders that may lead to failure and that’s the reason that most Virgo hesitate to engage in marriage or any other kind of serious relationship. Virgo are genuine people who never take more than what they need.
Sagittarius are very lively people with fun and optimism all around them. They are full of energy and enthusiasm with different outlook for life. They go through life wandering for the truth. They are aggressive creatures while brave by nature. Sagittarius are lovers of the world and nature, who enjoy traveling and exploring. Their primitive nature can often lead to physical disagreement with others. They hold no punches and what they express is just the natural process that makes up these creatures. They possess an earthly wisdom created by a life full of many experiences. It is hard to tell Sagittarius something they don’t already know. They have many dimensions to their ways of thinking. This is what gives the Sagittarius their need for exploration.
A Sagittarius oversimplifies and embellishes situations, causing an irritation to rise inside of a Virgo. When speaking, a Virgo cannot stand generalizations and exaggerations. When presenting something to a Virgo, it would be best for the Sagittarius to make a statement, while possessing factual proof. It would be good for the Virgo to know that a Sagittarius is compulsively truthful. The Virgo may become disgruntled having to hear the blunt truths about themselves from the Sagittarius. On the other hand, the Sagittarius enjoys learning new facts which actually quantify their imaginative theories about life. Over time, the Virgo begins to respect the Sagittarius’ spontaneous enthusiasms and antics. Soon the Sagittarius also learns to not ridicule the Virgo for their need to analyze and measure everything, while trying to find perfection. With slow and steady work on the relationship, they can actually make out in the best possible ways.
Sagittarius and Virgo are able to communicate with friendly understanding. They have many fulfilling conversations with one another. They are more alike than some think especially at the intellectual level. Even though the Virgo are more settled, they both enjoy exploring the world, in search of the excitement. A Sagittarius loves having someone join them in their worldly explorations and there is no one better than a Virgo to join them because together they can not only see but also analyze. Throughout their beautiful experiences, the Virgo is able to teach the Sagittarius about patience, manners and courtesy, while the Sagittarius teaches the Virgo about having an open mind and how to be more tolerant. With the Sagittarius, the Virgo actually begins to feel the chains come off and set themselves free from their desires of perfection.
There are many shades of all the relationships shared by Sagittarius and Virgo as they are both just two parallel lines which can carry on together but never meet. As friends, siblings and colleagues they can have a lot of fun and a lot to learn from each other. They never compete with each other as they have different values and reasons which never fall in each other’s ways. Business partnership can take these two places only if they go for something of real interest for both of them. Being relatives doesn’t affect them much as they either do not interact or interact on casual basis. As lovers and spouses they have some problems in the common decisions they have to take as a couple. Parents and children can have very friendly relation when parents are Sagittarius and more a disciplined relation when Virgo are parents. But in both the cases children get a great experience and learn a lot from their parents.
Difficulties pop up in this relationship as both Virgo and Sagittarius are quite straight forward. On one hand, Sagittarius are very blunt which hurts Virgo deeply and they look around to defend themselves. While on the other hand, Virgo are very critical and make Sagittarius feel low and unappreciated. They have their differences, but still their personalities attract each other. They both are able to let go of their negative attributes and have fun learning and seeing new things. The Virgo finally have excitement in their life by the Sagittarius’ ability to break the Virgo free from their binding mind-set by introducing them to exciting exploration, while Sagittarius see more perfection in their lives.
i am sag woman and my boyfriend a virgo. sometimes it is very difficult to communicate and at times it is really good since we have the same sense of humor and share the same values. he is good to my kids and is very caring, on the contrary side- he is very hard headed and defensive when it comes to serious topis. he often looks to me to direct things and i am just not one for that so it can create some conflict. i still appreciate him and i want us to make it to the long run-we have a baby girl together and i dont want to raise her in separate households so i try really really hard.
Saying a Virgo male. He was interested and I think he still is but my actions have kind of messed everything up (ima sag) but now I really wanna speak to him and get back to our relationship, I don’t want to chase him though, I want him to come to me.
What ended up happening?
i like this boy but he has a girl friend but he flurts with me but he dont like me so called
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B just gets to me. I have no idea what to do. I love him and he loves me but i been broken to many times and i dont want it to happen to me again. Is there any advice you can give me? I really need it.
@jerri35
One thing you need to remember about being with a sagittarius is that it will ALWAYS be a rollercoaster. You need to be a strong person to be with a sag. We, unfortunately, can be very selfish and insensitive in relationships. Sags are appealing because we crave excitment and adventure, we are outspoken…and typically sags are very attractive and sexual. These same qualities that attract someone in the beginning can cause problems when things become more serious; they create insecurities in our partners.
Your Sagittarius man may have created this story because he felt things were becoming too serious too quickly. Sometimes committment will scare a Sag off because we value our freedom and independence.
I feel the best thing you could do (if this is still an issue) is play it aloof. Act uninterested. If he calls, DONT call him back right away, dont text back all the time. We like to know our partner’s world does not revolve around us. We like a chase.
I hope SOME, if any of this helps you!
Hello, I am a Virgo(Sept. 1) and I think I’m in love with a Sag.(Dec.14), It was ok in the begining and then it was worst, It’s like a rollercoaster of emotions. He lied to me and told me that he was in jail for 3 years in Texas, all the while texting me back pretending to be his cousin. I did something of the same manner ;-), just to let him know how it feels to be lied to for know reason. One minute he want to be then the next he doesn’t. I am so confused with this relationship, I want to end it but then little things pop up out of nowhere to remind me of him as if the God is trying to keep us togather. HELP!!!
Hi, thanks for your response. That was the whole truth. The only thing I kindly left out was that he was considerably older, and just generally miserable about his life. He lives alone, any time a girl indicated she liked him, he’d have his way then find one ridiculous flaw with her and then kick her to the curb. Issues! We remained friends until I woke up and realised just what kind of sad person this is, and how misery likes to infect others with misery. I think in this case, it wasn’t the guy’s starsign that gave me clues to his mind, just his own, individual, shortcomings. I’m not bitter, just sad for him.
@sally17 Sweetheart I am a female Sag and a male Sag will always be flirtatious and it will always feel like a connection because that is our character we tend to vibe off the other person’s feelings. If we feel good around you then we will open up and flirt more b/c we are comfortable. Now, I can’t begin to wonder why he started off liking you with a belly and then all of a sudden change his mind. some Sags are picky and then there are your I just need a roll in the hay Sags. I am wondering if it’s more to this thanyou are letting on b/c if we are attracted to you then we will stick to it..and being that he told you that and didn’t cut you off completely I am just going to ask is there more to the story?
Hi, I’m a Virgo female (sept 1st) and the guy I like is Sag (17th December). First of all, I have most of these attributes, but I am very atypical in being a Virgo (I adore adventure and travelling, and with time I’ve learnt to tie down my critical tongue and accept that perfection, whilst wonderful, is also lacking in excitement and holds a person back from enjoying life), and I seem to keep falling for the Sagitarrius! (I fell for a Capricorn, earth signs tend to bore me, and I will always be connected to Cancers but…there are issues there too). So, this is the problem. I dated this Sag guy (I should mention, he is older, but having that characteristic of being child-like, you could never tell!) So we have this wonderful date, connected, sparks flew, and we became close very fast. Unfortunately, in the bedroom, he was unable to sustain performance (I didnt really want to go straight there, but once again, Sagittarius man will ALWAYS love sex!) and this was most likely due to the fact that he was sick with some kind of flu. So everything was still fine, I didn’t mind and afterwards we were still very affectionate with each other and had a mutual understanding that this was going to be something. We arranged to have dinner at his place, but unfortunately I was very delayed and he got very very angry. So angry that he said he didn’t want a relationship with me. After he calmed down, we had lunch, and I was there to explain to him that being late isn’t a real reason to end things and that I really like him (which isnt too common for me, Virgo standards – some things can’t be de-Virgo-ed). And he turned to me and sheepishly said that I was beautiful and have a great personality, but because of my weight (I have a small belly, not obese, just chubby) he wasn’t “sexually attracted to me” – basically meaning he couldn’t sustain himself because of my appearance. As a final year medical student, I know this to be not the case, this is not how a man’s sexual arousal works (he cannot be turned off by the same thing that turned him on), but, I got over the hurt and tears and told him that I would be his friend still. So, now we’re friends, we don’t get to talk regularly because we’re both busy, but just last night I was talking to him and we still have that connection. The conversation even becomes flirtatious! So what I need to know is, is that it? We’re friends, just friends? There’s no way he was maybe lying to himself, will change his mind, or maybe do what I thought the typical Sagittarius did, and see the person’s soul and not be preoccupied with the looks? There are so many things I’m attracted to with this guy, I’m thick-skinned enough to tolerate and even respect his bluntness. I demand honesty, whether I’ll like it or not, the fact that this guy will always be honest means that his compliments are real…and so are his more harsh opinions. Knowing this…is intimacy ever going to be a real option?
ima sag man. Go to the fuckin gym. U have to. We are a very physical creature. Ur soul and good heart great interesting conversation is brilliant but is not enough. Get ur body right. Ur mind is perfect.
@shiakun08 There is a high chance more stronger, outgoing, adventurous, intelligent and educated woman would dominate you and leave you when she finds that she is not satisfied with you and needs a man who is stronger, intelligent and rich than you are.
What you sow is what you reap.
I am a PiG Virgo man 1st of Sept:
Sunrise: 5:32:09 AM | Sunset : 7:18:56 PM
Planetary Information at Sunrise:
Moon : 24 Cancer 50
Sun : 21 Taurus 58
Moon phase is : Waxing Crescent 35%
Tithi : Shukla Panchami 5
I have now fallen for a Sheep Sag Women (Dec 19), I want to leave my Pieces of 3.5 yrs (February 27, dog) because even although with have I balanced harmonious relationship and she Loves me to bits and wants to marry me I feel that I will never be happy, as she is so weak; I feel I need a stronger more outgoing and adventurous woman who is a good love maker with a high IQ and good education, which is what I currently see in this Sag female……Any advice???
my friend is a sag. and i am a virgo. i am always ill it seems like. while most of this seems true, i am more outgoing while she likes to sit at home. Also, i suck at math but other than that this seems fairly true.
This is 100% true never read a zodiac compatibility so on point. Thanks 🙂
Wow this is so true