Gemini and Capricorn have little in common. Nevertheless, many couples have such combinations because they are often attracted to differences. Capricorn is sensual and practical at the same time, but a little shyer at the first stages of love while Gemini is ready to easily take up any new thing, including love relationship.
A Capricorn man is humble and gentle, yet fiercely protective of his loved ones. He is very ambitious and likes to be on top, the very top, socially, financially, and free from idealistic dreams and foolish illusions, as well as needing to show accomplishment and respect. Upset a Capricorn man and he draws back and grows silent and gloomy. His romantic side may start out slow and cautious but his desire and contentment to be loved and respected brings his emotions out. He is a traditional lover who treats his woman well but never lets her forget that she is a woman.
Gemini woman loves fantasy, mind games and a fun lifestyle. She cannot settle down at one thing so easily. Her mind is busy probing, dissecting, searching, calculating and wandering on the wind, all at once, which can cause two worlds to fuse as one the “real” world and the world of imagination. Adventure, change, being able to go when she wants to go and freedom are the traits she hold on to very dearly and does not give up all too easily for anyone. Being in a relationship brings out her most romantic feeling which are irresistible for any man.
Gemini woman has an insight that enables her to analyze her Capricorn man quickly, read him and untangle every knot. She makes him feel easy in her company very quickly. She never holds onto a past she no longer needs and she never understands why others could do such a thing. This seems all too cumbersome to Capricorn man, but his amazement in the way her mind works holds his attention to her. While she in return respects him and his insight. Gemini woman spends money as fast as she can make it. She has a new approach to every subject and is always willing for a new argument. If Capricorn man can avoid feeling threatened by his Gemini partner’s need for space and simply take advantage of those moments to pursue some of his many and varied interests, this can work well.
Although there are definite differences in both Gemini woman and Capricorn man, these do not restrict her from falling for such a reliable man. He wants financial security and strives for that very goal. Capricorn man has somewhat of a serious nature which is sometimes depressing to Gemini woman and her frolic type tendencies are equally upsetting to him at times. If they can each get through these subtle differences they could grow a love that is great and wholesome and quite exciting in the latter years of their relationship. Very unlike Gemini woman, once Capricorn man is finished with a subject, it is completely over forever. If the fickle and unpredictable Gemini woman can learn to be patient, and adjust with his need of solitude, she can find a true and loving mate in her Capricorn man that will be everlasting through out her years.
As the doe eyed Gemini woman solves the cold mystery of her Capricorn man and brings in new dimensions of excitement in his life, they both enjoy the warmth and fun of life with unconditional love and stability that is a rare thing for Gemini woman to experience. Their love has all the expressions of enthusiasm and romance and yet has a silent serenity. With her expressing face having a flashing quicksilver loveliness for her Capricorn man and he having all the care and substance to give to his Gemini woman, they make a perfect togetherness with joyous thoughts and deep intellect. Their achievements and accomplishments are so very delightful for them, that they always bring home the trophy of success when they work shoulder to shoulder supporting each other. Together they discover the inner beauty of hearts and relations and understand the oneness that keeps them close forever.
Capricorn man and Gemini woman possess a strong sexual bond with sensual blend of earthy passion and airy fun. But it is not the core of their relationship although it could be an important aspect. For both of them sexual unity is a means of rest and comfort and to achieve a level of security in their relationship. The Gemini woman provides her Capricorn man with playful physical and affectionate displays and Capricorn man fills up his Gemini woman with words of love and touch of loving passion which makes her feel secure . Their togetherness is generally very fulfilling and they both have a lot to share and make their partner satisfied both emotionally and physically. Sometimes the love making of Capricorn man and Gemini woman is a means of a cozy comfort between the two; sometimes it is a dominant expression of love, whereas other times, rarer than not there may be some more blazing fire of sexual passion. But what ever it is, it is always very gratifying for both of them on all levels.
Gemini woman and Capricorn man basically have two strong differences. First, in the financial world, the two are completely different as Gemini woman is frivolous with money and cannot justify that money should sit in a bank collecting dust while the Capricorn man is conservationist and feels at ease knowing that money is readily available when in dire need. Second, once Gemini woman captures her Capricorn man’s heart, he makes her tremble with the anticipation of the picture that he paints for her in the future. After a while she grows tired of staring at such a painting and wants to spread her wings and fly. If Gemini woman can be patient and get through this down time, she learns that she has a beautiful lover in her Capricorn man. He can be the one who is true and strong for her in the years she needs him.
The strongest magnetic field
Ohhhhh this is truly me n my love 😍
I feel I have met my soulmate in this Capricorn man. It is quite strange and magical. We have not met in person yet as we both wanted to establish a friendship first. I feel extremely at ease and overjoyed when socializing with him. I can talk to him openly and without fear of judgement or misunderstanding. I find it amazingly easy to truly express myself which has enhanced my writing and creativity. I am certainly the more cautious one in the love department. It took him one week to express his feelings for me whereas I needed much more time to decide if this was real or ill perceived. I cannot deny I have exceptionally strong feelings for him. I cannot help but smile whenever he pops into my busy mind. I feel like a child. He has most definitely swept me off my feet. I have never in my life felt this way. Nor did I ever believe I would. So many horoscopes express incompatibility between our signs but I feel they are absolutely wrong. I know we are meant to be and there is no denying the exuberant signs the universe as thrown at us these past couple months. A fairytale it seems. He is the one that I will fight for and battle through the storms life will throw our way because we both believe this to be a greater love story that neither of us ever dreamt of before.
Im a gemini woman and my capricorn man makes me feel so happy and fulfilled! He balances me out and, being the ‘all over the place’ gemini that i am, he brings me the stability i need! Being with him makes me feel so secure, as he is so ambitious and hardworking, i dont feel the pressure to worry about the future because i know he’s going to achieve and help me achieve both our common and individual goals. And i help him view life from a different perspective and learn how to have fun. Our differences definitely work for our favor as i have what he lacks and has what i lack and we compliment each other in such a magical way! I just love him so much and i dont understand why most websites say that gemini women and capricorn men are a tricky match!
When I read your comments, I feel I have a little confident to get to know my new Capricorn man. I hope we can work it out well. Thank you.
I am a Gemini woman in love with a Capricorn man that I’ve just met…all of the emotions I feel when I am with him, I’ve never felt before, so much so that I cannot get him out of my head. When he is around me, the feeling is so strong and intense that, I want to kiss him and touch him and make love to him every chance I get. I love how ambitious he is and how he talks about his plans and his life…listening to him talk is so exciting. When he is not around me, I feel so sad and lonely. The thing is, I’ve been in love once before, but this feeling, this chemistry that we have is so out of this world that my feelings for him scare me. I know that all of the horoscope tests tend to speak of the incompatibility between Gemini and Capricorn but that is completely wrong…it’s because we’re so different that I find him appealing. I want to learn from him and grow with him and believe it or not, I have no problem letting him lead. He is passionate, hardworking and he sweet talks me in a way that, makes me feel so alive and loved…but I don’t know if he loves me and although he claims that he can’t stop thinking about me, I don’t know if it’s enough for him to want to choose me and give love a chance with me.
The hard reality is, he told me that he is in a relationship and after meeting me he is indecisive even though he’s been with this woman for a long time, he is not in love with her but he has this strong sense of obligation and duty to her because she has always been there for him.
This makes me feel guilty and like, I’ve found my soul mate too late. I don’t know what risks he is willing to take but I’m in love with him and I don’t know how to turn my
emotions off. In my heart, I see a future with him, I see forever with him but the reality is, he may not admit it, but that sense of obligation and duty that he feels for her, in my opinion, is love.
I am thankful for this forum so that I can speak freely about this without judgement and I welcome your advice.
Something tells me this didn’t work out for you. When one partner is cheating on both (you and her) nothing good can come of it. If he’d do it to her, he’d do it to you. I’m sorry.
You’re absolutely correct.
These people are psychologically narcissistic and clinical manipulator.
I second this.
Riri! Everything you said is literally what I am going to right. Gemini girl with a cap man that’s taken and he got very overwhelmed with his feelings and felt obligated to keep his relationship though he is not completely happy or satisfied and it hurt. I am hoping the same and we can rekindle if he figures himself out. Let me know how it’s going for you! Wishing you all the best gem
This is us exactly. My beautiful Gemini hopefully soon to fiance is the most amazing woman I have ever known. She excites me more than anything else in my life. We are very ambitious together and apart and we compliment each other perfectly. It is the deepest truest love I have ever felt. She is better at saving money however lol. We are both really good at making it. Thanks for the read!
A Gemini woman an I’ve been with my Capricorn man 5 years now. He’s exactly 10years older! When we met I was all over the place. He literally was the perfect peace to my storm. He was the “chill and stability” my heart needed! An I was the “excitement” he’d always been to afraid to seek. We balanced one another out in ways I never dreamed possible. I can honestly say at 26 I never knew stability until him. In the beginning he wasn’t afraid to explore new things with me. I learned how fulfilling just staying home could be! But two kids later an I feel he’s completely out of my reach. We hardly even speak. He always looks unhappy. I can’t take this dark cloud that hangs over me. I don’t know which one of us it is….. has he lost interest, or is it just another adventure my mind seeks.
My Capricorn boyfriend is very controlling and possessive, he only wants me to himself it is annoying and it stresses me out.
I have told him that he needs to change that asap, and he made a little bit of progress I just need to have more patience nobody can change one day to another.
I hope this relationship works, I trust him and I feel comfortable enough to be myself in front of him.
I love him, I love his smile, how he laughs and how passionate he is.
My Capricorn man definitely sells the dream of a lavish future together. It excites me so much. He’s the most confident man I’ve ever met. What was said about the sexual passion is SO true we can’t get enough of each other. Also I’m 7 years old than him but he’s so mature. He’s always vocalizing how enchanted & in love he is with me. He’s obsessed with the idea of us being a power couple. He is Aquarius moon & Taurus rising
I see myself in you, although we are not in a relationship (actually nothing even happened yet). But there’s just this very exciting feeling in the air between us. He’s also 6 years younger than me but I find him very mature aswell. I’m curious to know, who took the first step into making things happening? I feel like he’s giving me hints to take the iniciative but I’m not used to that (normally the guys I date are quick in the first stages). I would love your feedback!
This article enlightened my soul so much. My ♑ man and I have been together for almost 3 years. Last night I asked him to please just understand me and his response was “I just don’t want to talk about it anymore”. Vague ASF. Few moments later he grabbed me, held me and comforted me exactly the way I love…….No words necessary and that is why I could never leave my love. ❤️❤️❤️💯💯🥰🥰
I am Capricorn man. Same incident which you have mentioned has happened…
Hey y’all, I’m literally stuck in the downtime right now, don’t get me wrong, my Capricorn man is peeeerfect, but as a Gemini woman, damn I’m so impatient!! I wanted to have the talk with him, and ask him how he felt about me after a year together and he was so vague, I cried so much, I just wanted to hear “I love you”…. But even then, he hugged and kissed me and said even if I don’t say it, it doesn’t mean I don’t feel it. Ugghh I’m not patient at all
WOOW! I’m glad l came on here and read some comments as well, l just started to get to know a Capricorn man and he’s so interesting and talking about marriage already.
Cap man here, met my twin wife almost 25 years ago!!! Amazing chemistry for years now. She is 18 months older than me btw. Give that caprisun the utmost feminine flair and you will have him in a putty mess…hahaha.
Oh my gosh. I came on here because I just met a capricorn and it immediately felt different. I cant stop smiling when I’m around him. As a Gemini, personally no one has ever had my attention both mentally and physically. Now reading these comments, I’m super excited to see what happens between us. 🥰
Thanks for the good vibrations 💗
Lovely story. Currently dating a Capricorn and indeed he has already set his plans of marrying me someday. 😂
Wow. Love seeing all of these comments and knowing – it is not just me lol.
So my Capricorn man and myself are super close in age due to being born in the same year. He is still older lol!! But, our relationship is weird.
First – we met in 1993 while he was in the Army close to my home. We were very intense as a couple to be so young. Our relationship was about 5 months due to him leaving the Army and going back to his hometown unexpectedly. This hurt me as I knew he was my first true love. While we were just 18 – he made such an impact on my life and I would not even know the beginning of it…He had been gone for 3 months and I end up finding out through a TAROT reading I would be permanently connected to him. I could not figure that out. The friend who read my cards kept saying he was just going to be in my life forever and I would hear back from him soon. Well two days after that reading I get sick..and you got it..girl was pregnant. FIVE months. I had not gained any weight..EVERYTHING remained normal for my body. EVERYTHING. I had not spoken to him since he left the area and finding him was not easy. We were both in complete shock and pretty worried since we had some wild times being so young. Drinking and partying. He asked me to marry him and I just could not see myself moving to his hometown. I stayed here with my family and had our son. Mind you – we never got back together. He married/remarried. We chatted often and were always in a relationship but there was ALWAYS that intense soulmate feeling with him. Fast forward to today in 2021 and we both were single in 2018 and he ended up moving here. So my first love is hopefully going to be my last.
With that said..I do feel the insecurities I see some of you mention. And yes, we fought some pretty harsh and hurtful fights. Verbally trying to destroy each other. My heart did not want him out of my life but I just knew something had to give. He had to start opening up more or I had to go. And he did just that. Our relationship is completely different now.
So if he is busy with work – he probably really is. My guy loves and I mean passionately his work. He is passionate about his music, creating music, working in music – and it is time consuming. But I learned to just be a part of it and I regret nothing.
These Capricorn Man/Gemini Women things are scarily accurate though.
If you can stick it out – it is soul mate worthy. It has been for me. Timing was never right – but in the end we are together and I can 100% say no sign has interested me sexually or mentally. And those are both fairly important.
Good luck fellow Gemini’s. 🙂
Thanks Dawn. Your comments renewed my faith in this relationship. I am going to follow what you expressed in your post and continue to hang in there. I have never had an issue with him lying to me. So I do believe that it’s just my thoughts that are building up this mistrust. I did not mention in my original post that I am 7 years older than he is and I’ve never been married. He, on the other hand was married for 14 years and his wife cheated on him. They have been divorced 7 years. He told me from the very beginning that he is a one woman man. They had 1 child, a boy. He is now 20. He and his dad have a close relationship. When I met his son a couple of months ago, he told me that he had heard a lot about me and it was finally good to meet me. So…. I’ll practice some patience, with my Gemini self, and see what happens. I’ll keep posting.
Thanks Dawn. Your comments renewed my faith in this relationship. I am going to follow what you expressed in your post and continue to hang in there. I have never had an issue with him lying to me. So I do believe that it’s just my thoughts that are building up this mistrust. I did not mention in my original post that I am 7 years older than he is and I’ve never been married. He, on the other hand was married for 14 years and his wife cheated on him. They have been divorced 7 years. He told me from the very beginning that he is a one woman man. They had 1 child, a boy. He is now 20. He and his dad have a close relationship. When I met his son a couple of months ago, he told me that he had heard a lot about me and it was finally good to meet me. So…. I’ll practice some patience, with my Gemini self, and see what happens. I’ll keep postjng.
I am a Gemini woman in a relationship with a Capricorn man. We’ve been together for 15 months. I’ve never been in a relationship where I was always trying to figure out what my mate is feeling. He doesn’t express his feelings about me. Being Gemini, I am very vocal about my feelings. He calls me his queen and his one and only, but I don’t always feel like it. Like many of the other comments that I’ve read. he is totally consumed with work right now, 6 days a week, about 10 hours a day, leaving no time for me. I’m almost at a standstill. Do I wait around for him to go back to the way he was in the beginning of the relationship, hoping he becomes more attentive or do I move on? He says that he is just busy with work and he doesn’t want to lose me, but lately he hasn’t made much time for me either. He is very good to me and we are very compatible. but, since we haven’t been seeing each other a lot lately, I am definitely starting to wonder if he has found someone else. I’ve asked him and he assures me that he hasn’t. He says that he’s busy with work.
Omg Linda I just started dating my Capricorn and my story is the exact same story as yours, I was about to walk away from him today until I read these comments. Good luck to you and yours
I’m a Gemini woman and I’ve been my Capricorn man for a year now,he’s got a baby momma that’s obsessed with him and I don’t feel comfortable with her coming around. He has told me if he wanted her he can get her but I think he’s still sleeping with her behind my back. I feel that I can’t see my life without him. He cheated on me the first 6 months of our relationship,but I feel in my heart that he still loves and want to be with her. I stay stressed out because of the way I feel a lot of times. I’ve never cheated on him since we met each othe but I believe he know that I love him and I’m a 100% faithful woman to him. I wish I can really tell how he feels about me but he hides it so I can’t tell how he’s feeling. I’m so in love with my Capricorn man it’s unreal. I just need some guidance to stick through this realationship because I know he wants this to work but his actions towards me tells me otherwise.
Hi Emily,
l read your story and i felt your pain and l’ve been where you are just a few months ago but he wasn’t a Capricorn man but a Taurus. I honestly believe you deserve better and you should consider taking a step back from the relationship to heal from him cheating on your and also from him allowing his baby momma situation make you uncomfortable and yet not change it to accommodate your feeling. You honestly deserve so much better and if you are like me we tend to hold on even when its time for us to walk away. There is a saying l believe in “if you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they are yours and if they don’t they never were”. This saying hold true and i always let it guide me. I hope this helps and i hope you are ok.
I’m a 32 year old Gemini woman who has been married to my Capricorn husband since 2019, we began dating in 2014 and now share a 6 month old baby. It has been one hell of a ride. I am definitely very outgoing and love my space – never have cheated or thought of it. He definitely is all about his money and saving, and although that isn’t me, I can totally understand it, and strive to be that way (somewhat). At the end of the day I’m a spender. We have been through a lot of ups and downs and over the years I feel like more downs, especially after getting married. You see a person for who they really are once you live with them. I find him to be boring because his idea of a fun night is watching a favorite tv show, or movie with snacks together, and all though that is fun, I can’t do it constantly over and over. He has no problem repeating these kind of “date nights”. He’s constantly nagging about saving more, money is always an issue, and for me I hate that. He wants our life to be just him, i and our baby, and that’s another mentality I can’t stand. I value my family (my parents and siblings) deeply and can’t image my life being only him and our baby.
We argued a lot before we got married, but he never wanted to break up. I tried to get out of the relationship multiple times before we got married but he would always beg for us to work on the relationship and not to “throw away what we had”. I always felt bad and went back. I cared for him. I was able to look passed the arguments and was hopeful for better days. We would always make up by having sex and it was the best. He was very passionate and made me feel like I was the only one in his eyes which made me attached to him in that sort of sense. I caught him trying to cheat on me though, 3 years into dating. I never wanted to speak with him again and ended the relationship, but he wouldn’t let me go and begged for me to come back into his life. He promised to change, and he has never done anything like that since – however we still fought about other things. It felt like we would get over a hurdle and onto the next, there was always something. I feel as though all of the situations we have gone through, especially the bad have made his love for me grow very strong, but for me, it’s come to the point where I am so over it. He can’t imagine his life without me and refuses to give up on our marriage, but I’ve reached my end. I am able to forgive and move on from a situation, but when is enough enough? It’s gotten to the point where I am holding grudges (which is very unlike me) and being bitter towards him. Yes he is caring and loving, but his jealousy over me, constant repetitive schedule of his daily life, nagging over finances, arrogance when he speaks, and the feeling he gives me of trying to always be ahead (gets me annoyed because I feel as though it’s a competition) has gotten to me. Not sure what the future brings, but I just want the best for my daughter at this point. Praying for peace.
I sincerely pray you find peace. I went through a lot of the same things as a Gemini woman married to a Cap man. The only difference is that mine was narcissistic and that made everything between us that much worse. I had to get a divorce but it was only after 3 years of prayer so that I was sure it was the right move. It was….
I hope you are able to find peace no matter your decision. I know it’s hard but respectfully, marriage IS hard. Good luck to you all…
I TRULY TRULY understand where you are coming from. My Capricorn man is irritating!!! He constantly goes out his way to prove me wrong but when I prove him wrong he gets silent! I can tell he was a sheltered kid because every time I tell him the bad things I did as a kid he gets judgmental. That’s why I stop telling him past stories of my childhood. He very selfish at time and INCONSIDERATE of my time!!! He’s jealous and don’t understand why I’m not. I hv to think like him or I’m automatically wrong. He expects me to do EVERYTHING for him. I hv to ask him to do stuff for me but I’m supposed to know what he wants. It’s like the more time we spend together the less time I want to be in a relationship with him. I need a break from him! He drives me crazy!! He also makes me feel bad and sorry for him when I want to break up with him. He’s 46 and only dated 5 women and boy I can tell. He likes to fight with me over everything. Can nv agree to disagree.why do I stay? But he’s such a good man. I can depend on him for everything. He’s very affectionate. He always ask me am I ok. His “innocence “ from him being sheltered makes me care abt him. I can’t hurt him by walking away because it would truly crush him and doesn’t deserve to be hurt emotionally. I deal with it by being very patience with him.
Hi Natasha, this sounds so similar to my relationship, and yourself Marie. Would be great to discuss more as I always feel alone in it
Hai natasha,can we talk privately, im in a situation pretty much like yours, except, i havent had kids. Ive been with cap man for 5 years on n offs. And he is always begging me to return to me evertime we broke up. I knew this relationship is not the best for me, and have initiated breakup countless times,byt somehow, im still here with him 🙁
Dating my dearest Capricorn man for 2.5 years now, we started as best friends and got closer after 2 years of knowing each other. He literally dated my first-year roommate, I was dating someone else at that time. My relationship didn’t stay for too long (kinda felt force as we met on tinder lol), his went on for a year and ended badly. I helped him get over my then ex-roommate and we became bffs. A year and a half later, we came clear to each other about our feelings and have been very happy since. He keeps me grounded, he’s very good at sex, provides me with emotional support and inspires me to be a better version of myself. I feel like I don’t help him with anything but he tells me I am his best friend, I understand him on a different level and I always make him leave his comfort zone. we are both engineers of the same discipline and love anime. though we have our differences as well, I am an artist with a bad spending habit and he’s a gamer with almost zero spendings except for video games. he likes to grow food in his games and I like doing so in real life.
This is cute as fuck!!! <3
I just met my dream man, he is a Capricorn and I Gemini. Hes silly and sweet and we started out with mad honesty. Cant wait for what will come of us, we have both had struggles and we have worked on ourselves. It is perfect timing for me as I am so strong and free now after healing my past. Today I am blossoming and he is the cutest bee coming for me YAY!
I am a gemini myself and I’m falling for a Capricorn. He comforts me all the time, he flirts with me, but I’m not sure about if he likes me back. It’s always so hard to get him to open up when he is having a hard time. So it’s a bit frustrating though he gets me very well. I’m still debating whether I should open up about I feel or just stay friends.
Omg im in the same situation:'( did u tell him yet?
I am a female Gemini who was born in 26th may, and If you know I am a flirty, energetic and confident person. And I have shared my feelings of love to a Capricorn men that I thought loved me back but he rejected me, I thought I got his hints that he throws at me but I was wrong. He is not as same as me he is more of a cold-hearted person I flirted with him for a long time now and I am determined to make him mine but he never lets me have a taste of his affection . Please!!! help me so I can fix the sink ship of my love🥲
I am a Gemini woman falling for a Capricorn man
I have known him for about 4 years when I dated his friend, so we became friends even after I had broken up with his friend
He always showed affection towards me but i never really knew of it was genuine. He has been wanting us to date for years now I don’t know if he’s really serious. I do like him though. The only reason I didn’t want to date him was because I dated his friend.
Im gemini woman (29) i loved my capricorn man (39) i mean he s the only person i loved for real like it was my pure love but he just left with no reason no warning that really broke my heart im just trying to hate him and never forgive him it s already been 2 years for break up anyway geminis dnt get fool by capricorn i know he s perfect and stuff but he has a cold heart will left you in cold .
I am so sorry about your situation. Just keep faith in Lord and move on in life. God will definitely reward you with something better!
I’m a Gemini woman(22) I’ve had a Capricorn man (24) as my best friend for over 8 years.
Within the first 2 years he hinted that he wanted more
But I brushed over it.
We have been close friends ever since.
Through the years, (7yrs) I had a Virgo boyfriend that didn’t treat me the best.
It upset my best friend that I never left this Virgo man .
I kept hoping things will get better.
This caused a rift in our friendship coz he couldn’t stand to see me hurt given how much he cared about me.
In 2020 we started hanging out more frequently and rekindling our friendship by 2021, I was out of my emotionally abusive relationship with the Virgo man.
The frequent times we hang out I see more and more how much he cares about me.
He has expressed again that he’d want to be in a relationship with me.
So I came on this website to make my final decision and by the looks of things we’ll be perfect for each other. 🙂
Same reason I am here😂
I Gemini (61) just started texting my Capricorn man (64)…why do I feel in love with him already he seems so perfect I just want to love him forever …. I know give it time but all I want to be is his every woman…he speaks directly to me and give me the attention I desire….he’s strong yet kind I want this what ever it is to last forever
I (GW) have only known my Capricorn king for over a week, and I am weak at the knees. Praying that God truly gives him to me in every sense of the word.
Please tell me how y’all are now!!!
i’m a Gemini lady (21) and i got attracted to a Capricorn guy (23), known him for about 3 years. used to hate him as he quite arrogant, but as days goes by i fall for him didn’t have the thought of telling him about my feelings towards him, i have no guts to do that. i told myself that i found myself a gold, he is so good with words, he’s action are polite and he do respect me. on the 3rd year of knowing each other, got to know he is talking to another girl and he start to distant away our conversation does not even last till 3am. starting from that day i decided to walk away as i want him to be happy and he found about my feelings towards him from my close friend. he told me that he don’t want to lose me, i told myself if i keep holding on i will hurt myself even more. i lied to him that i will stay and the next day i ghosted on him, which it didn’t help me to cure myself.
Girlllllllllll update us ??? Btw I’m 21 Maybe I can give you some advice ? Géminis tend to fghost in uncomfortable or unappreciated situations
I’m a Gemini (29) I’ve been with my Capricorn (39) man a little over 3 years. We have a 15month old son together. That’s his only kid, but I have 2older boys from previous relationship. When we got together it I was in awwwwww with our relationship. A year before we got together I would go out an drink on the weekends when the boys were with their dad. So it was kind of the perfect peace to my storm. (So I thought) I just liked what everyone thought we were. My family finally liked the man I was with. It’s funny because I didn’t realize how lonely I was until I got pregnant an my hormones kicked in. We go sometimes a whole week with only saying a total of 10 words to each other. 3 years only time he isn’t to tired to go out an do family things just happens to be when my other kids are at their dad’s house. An still it’s maybe been 6or7 time’s. He talks about his future like it’s just that. I have never had a problem saying how I feel but with him I’m so disconnected that I start to panicking and trip over my words. I’m not good with money but I never spend it on myself. He is responsible enough to make sure the bills are paid first but any extra money goes on Window tint rims an tires or flashy things that make everyone looking think he has money. Hie doesn’t like to spend money on household items because it’s his money. Im loud and obnoxious he’s quite but seen. I’m active and adventures, he lazy and boring. I like everything in my house to have a place and a purpose while neat and clean he is a pack rat that is so unbothered with a mess that it drives me crazy.
I’m a Gemini woman who was in a relationship with a Capricorn man for about 1 year & 4 months. We met in college when I was 19 and he was 20. At first I wasn’t that much into him but after a few months I fell for him. This relationship was a rocky one because of our differences. I’m more on the clingy side when I’m in love & he always seemed detached. I caught him talking to other girls throughout our relationship and would always try to leave but he would beg me to stay and say that he wouldn’t hurt me anymore. He told me I had his heart but he broke up with me out of the blue and said it was for no reason… if we’re meant to be we’ll be back together. I found out he really left me for another girl (who he claimed to be his friend). I have classes with the girl and I think she has no idea who I am because I believe he was messing with her the entire time on the side & keep her there until our relationship hit a rough point. They’re still together, they’ve been together longer than me and him have been together now and seem happy. This is probably my first and worst heartbreak.
I am Gemini woman(28), married to a Capricorn man(33), There’s plenty ups and downs in these relationship, I am all about spending money and having a good time, he is all about saving money and working really hard. My husband doesn’t talk much, I used to think that he is arrogant and possessive, but I actually think capricorn man are very unique, very organised, loving, a bit shy and intelligent. To be honest with you, I had to learn to love him, focusing on the good. If a capricorn man really want you, they can sacrifice so much for you. He wasn’t all roses at the beginning, there were so many things I disliked, but totally worth it. We are 5 years married, been together for 6. We have kids too. It’s a good relationship. Couldn’t find better. GIVE CAPRICORN MAN A CHANCE. IF YOU FIND A GOOD ONE, YOU FOUND GOLD. LOVING, LOYAL AND A BEST FRIEND.
Let’s really hope
Hi All,
Just thought i would share my insight on dating a Capricorn man. I’m a Gemini women (28yrs) dating a Capricorn man (32). We’ve only been dating for a short period of time but i have my doubts already! I’ll list the Cons first lol. He can come across arrogant, a know it all, and sometimes speak to you as if you were a child. Or lack of better words as if he was smarter than you. I see a controlling/ jealousy side. Can be very petty if he doesn’t not get his way. Distant and somewhat confused. Pro’s finical stability is his top feature. Once he likes you and opens up, you can see hes sincere in wanting to make you happy. Overall it will be a lot of compromising which i myself cannot stand to do much of. But if your willing to do an extreme amount of compromising then go for it
Sounds like my relationship! The stability seems to be what keeps me holding on. I know that he loves me but loving someone an being in love with someone are two completely things. I like to laugh an share my life with him while he may show me three times a month. I feel alone more than I feel loved.
These replies.seem trust worthy, though I don’t understand astrology anymore. Feels comfortable to read this. Thanks !
I’m a Gemini Woman with a Capricorn man it’s been 3 months we are in the early stage but I already feel I am falling in love with him. We have come along so far in this short time he used to be reserved, quiet and keep his feelings inside he was a man of few words. Me on the other hand so talkative, observant and analytical always needing answers and a man who can express himself with actions as well as words. He used to not say much so I would make up my 101 conclusions look at every possibility and spend way to much time trying to figure him out, a Capricorn man takes note and because he cared for me I think he felt bad watching me trying to figure things out through his lack of communication, he began to express himself he would tell me he misses me,
He would open up about things that were private and personal to him, he would tell me his fears and through this I felt I understood him so much more. He hasn’t said it, as in asked me himself but I think I’m his girlfriend lol he already has a toothbrush here, charger, shoes and a coat and his own side of the bed, he was on the phone the other day and I heard him tell the person “please call me later as I’m with my girlfriend”. I have definitely seen progression between us. I am a much more grounded Gemini, I am also homely I have cancer in my moon this might be a contributing factor, I cook him dinner, breakfast, I’m affectionate I make sure I complete my task especially when he raises his eyebrows at me lol I feel like a child when a teacher is proud of you, he has stepped out of his box and gives me great patience and communication as well as understanding and the way we look at each other is so intense, we are
Always touching as well we have to always touch in some way wether holding hands or hugging or sitting on his lap. This is the sort of man I want for now and the future. Don’t be afraid of this match it can be beautiful.
wow my name is shayla too and im a gemini and me and my capricorn man have been together for 10 months probably 6 months in i broke up with him because we were in a long distance but when we broke up i realized he really captured my heart because i felt so sick and incomplete and thankfully i have his and we worked things out i hope he is the man i marry.
You really need to delve deeper into both parties especially their moon signs. How does your partners moon sign match with your sun sign and vice versa. I’m Capricorn and while I show many of those traits on the outside, get to know me and my Libra moon shines through. I’m more conversive, romantic, affectionate than a typical Capricorn
I’m a Gemini woman waiting for my cap man to commit! We’ve been together 4 years and I’ve never cheated but I’m afraid my impatience is turning my eyes to greener pastures… break up might be in the future :/ unless he opens up to me about his plans for our future.
Gem, I have my now husband 2 years before we were married and at 2 years, I left him. He was never in the idea of being married and so I left and put my foot down. We were engaged 2 months later. Married now 8 years!
Gemini lady dating a Capricorn man and we are 3 years in. He still hasn’t proposed and I would like to have children soon as I’m in my mid 30s. He always has an excuse like we have to finish the house remodel. I’m growing impatient and don’t know what I need to do. Ugh this sounds so generic but I fear I moved hundreds of miles away from my family for a failed relationship. Fear grippes me to often. I wish he would just commit.
Dude it depends on what type of gemini you were dating i am a gemini too but never left or cheated my boyfriend
Bro, straight up kill’n it. Chur.
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Dated a gemini girl … she is very manipulative and cheater … caught her chatting with another guy on FB .. its true they always keep options … gemini not a good match for us
That’s horrible you were cheated on, but we’re not all like that. I’m a Gemini female and I’ve never cheated! I’ve been cheated on before though…
My current boyfriend is a Capricorn and we managed to achieve the obstacles mentioned in this article. We’re planning on getting married eventually, and he’s been wanting to travel the world with me. Do not give up on love! I hope you find your happiness friend!
I hv dated a Gemini girl and I found that initial excitement is good but my depressed nature and focus on career was the reason behind our break up , also if Gemini feel they are not getting enough in relation they will break up , I feel that she is very egoistical, funny , loving but if getting bored she will fly away in first class and take only one way ticket
Sorry this match for me as a cappy is very unpredictable which I hate the most I like things which are solid not shaky
Hehe , love it !
Fantasticness !!
I’m a Gemini women. You say you have depressed nature,your Gemini probably didn’t leave you because you were boring but because she may have felt she couldn’t help you.Gemini women are caring and believe me or not very emotional. I personal care about all my friendships and relationships.Gemini love to try and make people feel better no matter what. Never give up on a Gemini, if your still interested in Gemini’s you will find the perfect Gemini women for sure. One things for sure, is Gemini are not all the same 🙂
I am Gemini . My Capricorn…. I thought he was aquarius at first, but we re so comfortable in our flirtationship. He is full of admirable prudence and sensibility and an honorable character. He never hesitates to point out my mistakes and make me stop and think about what i did and i really appreciate that. He has a firm but gentle candor and it has earned my deep respect.
He is a gentleman of class and integrity. He adds so much value to my life and I am working to become the best version of myself to be worthy of his standards. We game together on a weekly basis and we enjoy intellectual conversations both via text and phonecalls. My little sis loves him (my mother is dead and my father is all but estranged) and he is gradually introducing me to his family . Thanks to his kind sage and friendship I have cultivated several success oriented habits including a better diet and fitness / health beauty awareness that i was never motivated enough to care about. Even if something happened to end us, his advice and help would remain a solid positive impact on my life.
You go girl. Gemini’s are good on the inside and out and are always looking on ways to improve themselves. I hope you to are still together and happy as can be. Best wishes
i am Gemini, he is Capricorn, but I never feel I am lacking something from him. he is doing his best just to make me happy. and i am satisfied in that. i am soo happy that he is my life partner. i am just happy with him. so he is.
My Gemini woman is stubborn and very demanding. She knows I love her but she keeps on asking. Its us, Capricorn man yes we rarely do texting. We don’t mind not communicating for a day cuz we trust our girlfriend. Although she’s talkative and I hate it when she is starting to question me nonsense things, it sucks actually but I still love her because of her loyalty. If we don’t reply your text it doesn’t mean we ignored them. We are Capricorn we need time, support and privacy. If our woman do these lm sure we will love them more. About sex life, yes its great. I agree with the article. I might communicate less with my girlfriend, but when every time we had sex I will make sure she feel satisfied with me. She’s still amazing girlfriend that ive known, best sex ever! LOL.
What major areas would you want your Gemini gf to improve!
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Im a Gemini woman. I have been with my Capricorn man for years. We have soo much ups and downs but we managed to go through. He doesnt like me hanging out with my friends, he will be jealous if I am friend with guy. He feels like I was controlling him, but he didnt realize that he is controlling way too more. Too protective like a father taking care of his daughter. He asked me to stay at home and less socialize with people. Somehow I feel like I was thrown away by him because whenever I become clingy and want his attention, he doesnt care. We seldom see each other. I miss him always but he seem not. He is always busy, we meet only at weekend, but sometimes once a month. When I text , I wait for his reply for hours. But thank God eventhough he seems doesnt care about me, but at one time he will admit that he always love me soo much. and I trust him because when we meet, I can see his action that shows he still wants me. Hosroscopes telling that Gemini and Capricorn dont match well, but actually they are powerful and can be together for long term relationship because their characteristics are balancing them out, “Capricorn with great patience, silent and don’t care characteristic can handle a Gemini that is childish, talkative and always commit for your relationship”. I believe on this, because like us, it takes time for us to understand each other and now we are happy.
Hi.. I am Gemini Woman with Capricorn man.. it’s been 2 years of our relationship .. only 7 to 8 months of our relation were spent happy but in that period of time we faced so much obstacles on our way. Now we still have issues regarding love and trust plus we also faces a communication gap between us because I feel like he puts no more efforts to make this relationship more stronger . I just wana know, is that really a difficult thing for both to manage with so many differences , we don’t wana end up this relation but I also feel that the things are not moving on tha way they should be.
HI,…I’m gemini woman wth caps and it’s very hard sometimes that he is sweet and taking care of me but sometimes i felt that he don’t care about me. i know we can’t be together because we have many differences and he had a different religion also but i love him so much and sometimes i can feel his love towards me. i can’t really understand about him…Need help please…? we’re in relationship for 8 months and counting but just like best friend.
May never give up. Your Cap man will come around. Capricorn have a tendency to not really want it communicate but, im sure he loves you and wants to be with you.Maybe by telling him how you feel he may open up.
Don’t give up on cap. Man as they know the value of Loyalty
Gemini woman here I’m currently in a relationship with a Gemini man we’ve been together for a long time 4 years I love him so much but we argue so much 🙁 and he is so boring I thought he would be fun like me because we’re both Gemini and the sex is terrible but he takes care of me and my daughter and provides stability, lately he hasn’t been giving me the attention I need so I searched for an old friend and couldn’t find him so I prayed on it, my old friend is a Capricorn man he actually found me and we started talking again. I would leave home and stay with him at his house he told me he wants to marry me and he want me to have his son 😅 I already have a daughter but the last few days we spent together went so well so fun he makes me laugh just like he did 13 years ago he keeps posting me on his profile, he tries to impress me by cooking he is a terrible cook but I love his effort. He wants to cuddle and kiss me, he wanted me with him everyday but I have my own family. It just feels good to be wanted by him. Lately my Capricorn friend has be distant I get so upset when we’re not together but I want to give him space I know he is dealing with so much with his crazy ex girlfriend he was with her for 6 years. When we spent time together I was so shy and I would never let him touch me lol I feel like that’s why he is drifting away or his ex is back… he is planning a night for us we haven’t had sex yet because I don’t want ti cheat on my Gemini man until I’m for sure we’re done… but I want to love on my Capricorn man so badly I crave him and he tells me he would give it to me good I believe him… but he stopped texting me everyday giving me attention we’ll see if he keeps his word for our little date…
Capricorn man and Gemini woman both have things/nature and character that the other needs, they balance each other out!. They both will greatly help each other have a beautiful, happy relationship and life… The affection that comes when they meet is strong and b.e.a.utiful; they just need to be more GENTLY expressive of their feelings/opinions, be patience , COMMUNICATIVE, be truthful, UNDERSTANDING, come to a COMPROMISE, be supportive of each other and working together. Work together, Have fun together…. Cap needs truth+support, Gem needs understanding+patience.
I agree
Gemini women are very demanding, impatient, quick to quit/runaway from lil problems, spendthrift, selfish, lazy, don’t have much understanding cos there’s no patience. Do the opposite of these and you win the golden heart of a capricorn man.
Show him you want to help support him in his business/work together with him..he will sacrifice for you..but please don’t betray him..his greatest value in all things is TRUTH/HONESTY..he could kill for betrayal.
The extreme gemini woman is proud and demanding, but she has a beautiful heart, she needs patience, understanding and loves to be in control..try give her a little of that and see what she does with it, if she is productive with that, then you’re in luck, but if she waste it…let her go, she is just passing through!, she doesn’t know what she wants.
She is a child/immature, any man would have her and let her go cos she doesn’t know whom she is and what she wants. Careful..
Plssss I have just read about this and its so true…I dated a Capricorn and I wasn’t patient enough with him but we just had issues like a month now and its really tearing me apart please what can I do to get him back….I love him so much and he really loves me too but because of my actions he has just been cold and wants to be on his own…plssss what can I do to have him back
The only best way is talk and sort it out. nothing else would help. a phone call or a sms would help to start the conversation.
I’m a gemini woman dating a Capricorn man aswell nd he was like that when we first got together. Very judgemental, distant and cold. I didn’t chase him. I went about changing things to make him want me. I started studying at a uni to become ambitious. I stopped hanging out with people he didn’t agree with. I googled how to keep a Capricorn man and I did as it said and it worked. 7months and he’s head over heels. But typical Gemini, ok need space now and he won’t let me. It’s either suffocation or he leaves. I ran away. Giving him the chance to stay and accept I need spare sometimes or he can leave. That would break my heart but I can’t be trapped like that forever.
BE PATIENT. SO HIM THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM AND WILL DO ANYTHING TO SHOW HIM THAT LOVE HIM AND AM SORRY FOR BEING STUPID.sorry for the capitals lol
My love life Sukks Ballsssssssssss!!! Gemini lady here dated a handsome Virgo he ignores me and now a Capricorn who makes me feel soooo good but has similar traits as Virgo whyyyy me! Oh did I mentioned how horrible my past 8yrs been did 20diff changes and my life sukksssss also!!! FML
This is the best !!!
Gemini woman here… Hoping to shed some more light on the topic of relationships and compatibility as far as Gemini and Capricorn go. I’ve been with my Capricorn man a little over seven months now; The first few months were absolutely amazing, the last few?…. Not so much. It’s almost as though now that he has me, he feels like he doesn’t need to communicate with me as much as he did before. I work a typical forty hours a week while he does “unconventional” work at home and I’m lucky if I even get a “how are you” or even a “hello” whereas me, the communicator, is just dying to talk to him. He claims that he hates texting, which I absolutely understand, but at the same time… Going a whole day, or even half a day, without talking to him just kills me. The money part is partially true as I know how to save but at the same time I have no problem spending it on something that I really like. He likes to butt his head into my financial matters, which are quite honestly no buisness of his. He also has a habit of treating me like I’m a child, which really gets under my skin. Unfortunately, my Capricorn is also a Narcissist and that mixed with any sign does not make for a good life partner. Just a long, hurtful, headache of a relationship that is not even worth getting into. I feel like a caged bird with him but it’s hard to walk away from someone that you love, regardless of their faults and flaws. I do believe that with a LOT of patience and understanding, the two signs could stand a chance being together but I suggest you scope out the relationship, as well as the person you are showing interest in, before you dig yourself a hole that is difficult to get out of.
Hello Toxxikitty,
I am Capricorn, and in general we are not communicative at all, its not you its us we prefer silence, if he doesnt like texting and if hes into computers then thats good because he will write to you instead.
Also be specific, get straight to the point, let him know its in your nature to talk remind him who you are, and how you two were in the first stages of the relationship. By the way texting is the worst for us because we dont like how it inhibits our desire to tell you something and if we make a mistake while texting you something important it pisses us off, where as on a computer we love it.
HOwever if None of this works then theres more going on, then I can share with you what may have caused this but his weaknesses are the same as mine and this is a more private issue. MOst importantly if this is the case then you will share this message I sent you and the next one, because caps hate secrets.
hello, i’m a capricorn man 26 who is in a relationship with a gemini woman. What has been said in this article is relatable towards myself and my relationsup is accurate, yet what has been said within this forum is pretty up and down, from both sides of gemini, and capricorn. Speaking for myself i am stubborn, a bit of a homebody, serious at times, yet full of life, funny, and romantic. but as a capricorn man i am patient and like to take my time with whatever it may be, for instance within dating and up into a relationship up to the time of speaking that 4 letter word of L-O-V-E.
with my gemini woman we have lots of fun times together, laughing, hugging, mere excitment, then it can turn straight into an argument from our incredible differences, i read within this article that PATIENCE is important, but what i find with a gemini woman she has no patience, she is stubborn as much as a capricorn, yet the difference is they do not like to take direction or opinion, they believe that since they are their own person that whatever the feel and think, and decide to do is what they will go and do and wont think twice about what the next person says which i believe is ignorance, and immaturity towards growth. This is not to say you are trying to change them, thise merely means you are listening, giving output and options yet it isn’t what they want to hear and feel that is exactly what you are doing to them, trying to change them.
through all of this we vow to become better with one another and understanding ourselves with each other, there is lots of hope within a relationship with anyone excluding signs and astrology, it all depends on the attitude, and mindset of whomever it may be and the willingness to realize change is needed and inevitable to allow two of anything to work.
Hi I’m a gemini women with Capricorn male. We are so in love however cousins. Cap men had this happened to you?
Omg I am a Gemini woman and my Hubby is a Capricorn and Reading this Article made my day because we have lots of differences. However, reading this gave me more Hope because i kinda belive stuff like this yet my bf doesn’t. the reason i belive is sometimes i compare and its truth . however, let me get to the point. My boyfriend thinks im just playing games while he is being serious ,yet i gave up so much and gave so much i just don’t understand. what should I do.
A relationship between a cap. and gem. Will never. Work. I have read this thing and multiple others and nothing good is ever said besides the sex. While the sex may be good the communication sucks. I was with a cap. and I had the hardest time getting him to open up. This is coming from a gem. who is very closed about feelings but trusted in someone full heartedly and crashed and burned. Just thought yall should know that capricorns and geminis do not work.
You have to be expressive and patient to a Capricorn man, they have great understanding and patience, they’ll will fix both of you and you will be more happy.Tell him how you feel and note how he also feels, then come to a compromise and move on, you’ll both have a marvellouse relationship that you’ll never regret!
I fell for a Capricorn and he broke my heart. I’m with a Virgo now and I had been with him bebefore but we are going to make this work. I’m a Gemini and i always had a hard time reading my ex. He was always secretive and was very flirtatious with other girls. He lied to me about it all the time and I feel like I was just someone that he could have sex with. He talks in riddles when I talk to him. What am I supposed to do? I try to be his friend but should I just drop it?
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Hi, I really need help! I am a capricorn 16 year old and I am talking to a gemini guy 18 years old. We arent dating yet, however, we hold hands and we kissed once. I feel like jm beggining to scare him away with my quietness and serious nature, any suggestions to how I should act? And how do I know he doesnt just want sexual relationship?
Be opposit of whom you are when you’re with her…let yourself go and be free..express whatever that comes into your mind, gemini doesn’t care..she will love it.If you’re quiet, she will be bored and fly away…
Listen. Im a Gemini women. Gemini women and men are different but the same. Just make him laugh. Gems love to laugh. If you make him laugh,smile, OR feel like he is needed he will want to be more passionate toward you. Trust me.
this is the most beautiful description of the reletaionship between gemini and capricorn i’ve read. i looked up comapility of the signs because recently i met a capricorn guy, i’m a gemini. his pick up lines were all about money. i was a bit drunk and really annoyed with his approach, so we started to argue. the argument amused me, it was more funny and not so harsh,so i continued to talk. really fast we changed direction of the conversation, and started to talk about love, family… his kindness and humor after he stopped talking about money were really charming, and we had a nice time together
Thats nice, that’s cos you were patient..and showed understanding, that’s how to get to know and be with a capricorn..they are wonderful people worth sacrificing for cos they’ll do it for you once they trust you.
I am gemini girl and in love with capricorn man. my problem is that i dont want to have sex before marriage and if i refuse him he shuts me out. I dont know what to do and my boyfriend says that he loves me but sometime he behave like he dont.
He may have shut you out because I’ve read before “that’s it really hard to turn a Capricorn man on, but it’s also hard to turn him off wants his on”He may have felt you were leading him on just to shut him down. Have you tried explaining to him why you don’t want to?
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Its my needyness and my bitchyness that i have to work on, and he has to worko n his allowing me to be part of his life. Its easy for him to fall into the, only see Vicky in the morning for a couple hours as we lay in bed and then he leaves, and he doesnt want me to leave with him. I can spend the whole day with him he can take only 2 or 3 hours at a time with me though every time its time to part we cant take our hands off each other. the times we are together reassures me he cares, but im constantly wondering why hes with me at all if he has no motivation to start being active and do things publicly with me. Well give it aome more time. Im supposed to be buying a home in june if things go according to my plans, and hoping hell move in with me, LOL. Well see if that happens.
tell him you love him dearly and needed him around you and with you, tell him to give you that attention..he will give it to you, he has great understanding and a beautiful heart..patience, honest communication and understanding is all he needs from you.
I have been seeing a Capricorn for about 6 months off-and-on now. I am 28 he is 26.. or hes now 27 as his birthday was Jan 3rd. it is difficult. Id known him a full year before we even decided to talk, saw eachother every day as we both own a horse we board at the same barn, and his tack stall is right next to mine even and he still never looked at me. But, though it was obvious i was having issues with a guy i was living woth at the time i see why hed not look at me even though every other guy at the barn wanted to jump my bones and they let me know it every day, RJ was the only one who never made a dirty comment. Id finally broke it off with my then boyfriend and made it known at the barn, everyone wanted to be next in line (no im not big headed i swear, thats just how it is there). I told them all i was only interested in one person there, and that was RJ . They were all shocked i had any interest in quiet RJ who never once hit on me. After i left i texted RJ which id never done before, and told him about the conversation with the barn guys, and that hell def heqr about it from them so i wanted to let him know i was into him. His response ill never forget. “Ohwell i think youre very pretty”. Melted my heart! How genuine, he doesnt even have to try he gets me with a few short words and i can never shut my mouth.
As it is now, i do find that i cant help having the strong desire to rush the relqtionship. I want him so bad but he acts like he doesnt care whether he sees me or not 90% of the time. But when he does let a wall down its the most amazing love and caring ive ever had from anyone. Hes letting me in more and more lately. I like to picture the future a lot, but he is a right here right now type of guy, i frustrate him with my future talks. I feel i have to let who im with know exactly how i feel and what i want, hes just a go with the flow kind of guy, theres no flow with me its all arranged and directed where to go, though i am extremely spontaneous and he is not.
I read here about the lovers aspect; and no the love making is not what makes the relationship, its amazing for me.. ive been with quite a few guys (not proud of it) honestly i believe im the first girl hes ever been with and he is still the best ive ever had not because hes just that good, because hes not, its this desire and passion i have for him that gets me 95% of the way there already all he has to do is say a few words or touch me just right and im in exstasy. He has such a big head because of how much pleasure he gives me without even touching me.
He told me about a month ago he loves me for the first time. I was shocked, i say he has a funny way of showing it. He can go days, even weeks without seeing me and be totally fine, im clawing at the door to get back to him though. We work so differently.
Conversations mostly consist of me talking, hell throw in 2 or 3 words here and there just to make it seem like hes part of the comversation but he doesnt hardly tell me what HE thinks, how HE feels. Its just information that will bring no memories. He says hes going to dye my hair blonde because i fumble a lot with my actions. Granted when he does decide to say sometjing its always the WRONG thing, bur somehow it never bothers me.
He is for sure a huge mystery to me, and i feel ill never figure him out, but perhaps that is what i cant get enough of. It keeps me interested. Even though every one of my friends tell me im crazy, he doesnt treat me right because i dont get the attention i crave from him. I think everyone is waiting for us to crash and burn but whenever we do take a break, its a break he says he wants to work on himself. He says he needs to allow himself to open up more. He says hes used to being alone and its hard to go on allowing someone elae to be a part of so many things hes doing, its q big change for him, and even 6 months aftwr we started seeing each other its hard for him. He says i have to work on my needyness, i need him to be with me too much all the time. . J.
pleaseee tell me that a relation between this two can rezist foreveerr, pleaseeee, i love my gemini girl and i want to be happy with her and to be togheter for eveer please, she sad is not like the others gemini but i read so many things about it and a relation between this two is not possible, please tell me it would work please, this is a shit is not real i don t want to believe this pleasee i love her so much tell me is not real please i can t live without her i want her to be by my side forever 🙁
relationship between both of you is possible, but you as a capricorn needs to be more open/communicative, free to enjoy life, be patient with her cos she’s gonna make you angry a lot..she looses interest quickly, gives up quickly, has lil understanding and spends money a lot. The gemini should also learn to voice out what she feels with patience and understanding to the capricorn, and she must be honest and supportive of him/capricorn. Thats how you can both last. MAKE IT A HABIT TO WORK TOGETHER AND HAVE FUN TOGETHER.
The truth is when you away she probably thinking “Does he miss me, she I text him or call. Why can’t he come home already i misssss himmmm soooo much ahhhhhh he driving me crazy leaving me.like this ughhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!”
I am Gemini and I have been married to a capricorn man for 8 years. I am struggling for the past 3 years. although we laugh alot but we fight alot too.. we both are stubborn which make it very diffecult to communicate sometimes. for a gemini woman communication is very importan as well as romance.. i don’t mean the silly teenage romance, but for a capricorn they can stay days without communication only high and bye or basic things which is torturing for gemini woman. a capricorn man wants his repect and degnity all the time even if he is worng which is hard for a gemini woamn to keep especially when her man is subborn and doesn’t accpet his mistakes.. they are very good as friends but not as life partners
Voice out your needs to him, tell him to be free to speak his mind..communication, patience, listenining, understanding is the key..come to a common ground, weigh the difference and find that which favours you both..then just do it..you’ll be fine and enjoy your relationship..Plan together, work together, have fun together.
I am a Gemini female, and I am currently seeing a Capricorn
man. We met last year through the party scene (he is in his mid
twenties and so far I haven’t seen the serious Capricorn I’ve been told about – he LOVES to party) and our ‘relationship’ is very unconventional. The description this website posted is
pretty accurate in most areas for my situation. Yes caps and gems are very different, but it CAN work! There is that deep,deep connection that is truly amazing. I am falling for this man and these emotions are scary for a gem!! We started off badly, mostly because of my dishonesty and aloofness. However.. he has stayed. I think (I hope) he is as captivated by this romance as I am. Now that I have matured I want a steady relationship with him. I know that he cares for me and loves me but he is very hesitant to get into an exclusive relationship with me. I know it is because he is worried and doesn’t completely trust me. So, how do I win my cap man over? How can I prove it to him that this will be worth the risk? Help!
Well you said it ” he is hesitant cos he doesn’t trust you.. be honest with him, don’t get pissed when he wants to know where you are and what you’re doing…he is very protective of his love/you, express yourself to him and be sincere, tell him what you like, dislike ,how you feel anytime in relations to him, stop demanding and support him, he will know you want nothing from him and he will trust you more and support you. Be patient, understanding, truthful and supportive with him…that’s all.
@Popppie
I was also married to a Capricorn man for 9 years and know exactly what you mean by waking up morning realizing you not the same person you were.
It was a very lonely relationship with long period of silence and being getting the “silent treatment” It the worst kind punishment you can deal to your gemini partner.
I loved him with all my heart but the time he realized that he was loosing me it was already too late. He tried to change and be the man I wanted, but for me the love was just gone.
@Nazia
I am Gemini, my husband is Capricorn….I had such heart time through years to make him relax and enjoy life…it took me untill these day hard time…but once he get recpect and apprciation he give me what I want…now Gemini don’t like controlling at all unless you try to do that then with her playfull mind she will try to make her point…Gemini easy to change thier mind in few minut…let her believe you that she is in control and you will see that she will ask you that she doesn’t want that power…Gemini is very complicated personality…if you have her it is mean you having 10 women which is Capricorn sometimes love that…
I am telling you it will take a while to understand each other but once happen you will be very happy…
as long as you give her romantic moment and she will be happier than having diamond…that’s me…lol
she doesn’t mind vication at all…so suprise her with that…she like advantures…do that for her…
alot of celebraty married Gemini
like: Elvis Presley and Priscilla Presley, johnny depp and vanessa paradis,
you relized these two couples break up and it is always gemini start with breaking up…
now if gemini will get what exactly is looking for she will never break up with you… Elvis and Priscilla were still freinds untill his death…
good luck
cheers
Divorced but Friends till Elvis’ death
For any capricorn man who wants a long fullfilling relationship w a gemini women u need to let her be herself which is a very outgoing friendly person w yes some personality traits that will drive you insane. Find a way to mingle w her friends cause she does the same w yours. I have been w a capricorn man for 20 yrs our daughter is capricorn and two of my closest friends are as well so they r compatible on the friend level but when u add n the romance and basic life,a relationship is a challenge even after 20 yrs. That is probalby why we are not living under the same roof right now. I need comunication, respect, and my dignity in all aspects of my life and a capricorn will take those things from u a little at a time. You wake up one day and its just gone but only in their company cause when ur with others u can still be u. Dont get me wrong there were good times but that was a long time ago and I think our stuberness of our signs have kept us together. Emotions run high w these two signs and fights can be ugly w two people that r so stubborn. Good luck to those who try,maybe the signs have nothing to do w it maybe they do. I have loved my capricorn man for 20yrs and will probalby continue to just dont know if I can live w him any longer.
You both need to learn more about each other, your likes and dislikes, come to a compromise, communication, patience and understanding is the key between these two. – Cap builds, Gem spends; build together, determine when and how much to spend.. work together, have fun together..that is the balance.You’ll be fine.
@vc0h61qiyrtc2ptvkkgae Thank you so much… sorry I knew I should have put a bit more detail, until 2 days ago there wasn’t any trauma about my previous relationship when I was 19 because just 2 days ago I came to take a look at this to check compatibility… from now on it might be a trauma, I just remember very well that relationship with a gemini hurt me deeply and I can’t believe I forgot to consider that detail in dealing with a gemini again but the reason is that I don’t follow this sort of thing, I guess is a lesson I now need to learn, if this doesn’t work I will suffer again my illusions getting broken once again….. but will have to learn for once not to deal with gemini again in the grounds of love however gemini friends have been quite the best I had
@cappyforever Probably you are still carrying that “relationship trauma” since you were 19. And that is really making you so much serious and possessive to your current partner.
All you can do is try to be in best of your mood and be always celebrating every moment as if there is no tomorrow. The thing is happiness creates more happiness.
Try out a few things on our Solutions page and especially Trauma Releasing Exercises. Relationships are all about skills and fun.
Hi there! Can anyone help me here please? We’ve been living together for around 6 months and the descriptions I see here above are so matching with our story… well happens that both of us are in visions to project our life together but because of having our difficulties I get my doubts on whether is going to work or not…. I’m the Capricorn she is the Gemini, I want to stand on the solid ground but often feel she doesn’t want to follow me although she says wants to be serious, she was actually even serious first than me, both of us are at 35yo… so is kind of time for building a family and having children for first time (both of us)…. I want to know a few things… how can I get my Gemini woman not to ever cheat on me when Gemini is one of the most unfaithful zodiac signs (no offence please I didn’t invented the zodiac) and I’m not quite sure about the fun side of my Gemini woman… I’ve always been funny in my life (and very serious too) but with her I feel serious for some reason, I want to make her laugh and I noticed is not easy… how can I make a Gemini laugh? my greatest friends in life have been Gemini and we have laugh till it hurts but with my girlfriend it doesn’t happen so much that way… she is not a serious person but also I notice she doesn’t laugh as much…… is scary for me to see that Gemini finds Capricorn boring at some stage… I don’t want to loose her…… at age 19 I got my heart broken by a Gemini, I don’t want it to happen again, I’m stubborn I guess in trying to make this relationship work…
Most definitly you’re stubborn..just be like her…be more communicative,speak freely, find subjects to talk about (family, entertainment, people, countries, family, sex, relationships, a lil about life), be more outgoing, have fine cloths to wear, be patient, be gentle, be understanding, speak gently to her, EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS…Just be like her but don’t get lost completly forgetting yourself. work together (cap’s), have fun together(gem’s). cap and gem can have a beautiful and happy relationship and greatly help each other..they just need to be more expressive of themselves, communication, patience, understanding, supportive of each other and working together. Cap needs truth, Gem needs understanding+patience.
I’m a Gemini dating a Cap. man…its only been 2 weeks. But this man has completely swept me off my feet. He’s very private and serious…I am very flighty, but I yearn to be grounded…and he keeps me grounded. Its a little tough at times because he’s moody sometimes. Everything on this page is true about the both of us. When we get into our romantic phase, its hours and hours on end of building castles in the sky, romanticizing about the future, and hot and steamy chats. But I’m learning to be “patient” thanks to this site. I’m hoping we have a long lasting, meaningful relationship.
I read this because almost every female friend I have is a Cap and I have dated many Cap men (am Gemini). I do not know if agree with what this says, every Cap man I know sleeps with a ton of women, parties all night, is the life of the party. I on the other hand hardly ever go out and enjoy my quiet time. Gemini’s are NOT flighty and shallow or frivolous. just do not agree with what this and all sites say about gemini’s.
Hi Frank,
I have known a Capricorn male friend for more than 8 years and though we are the type of friends who don’t always see each other but we always keep contact and are really close. When I first met him, I had a crush on him for 2 months but then his friend chased me and so we dated for the past 8 years and recently broke up. When I broke up, I recognized that all along, I still really like my Capricorn friend and I feel that he also have some feelings for me but maybe he thinks that I am his friend’s ex and don’t want to hurt my ex’s feelings. Though, my ex knew that I liked my Capricorn friend before I met him, the guy I like doesn’t know if I like him or not. How can I give him clues or hints that I like him or the dating with friend’s ex is a bad thing. My plan is to wait a year after broking up with my ex so that things cool down and hopefully my ex moves on and has a gf so maybe he won’t mind then.Thanks!
haixt you know the feelin of being inlove w/ my bestfrn gem..for almost 7yrs since in hi school untill secondary ..he is so cool yes so vocal and flirty …im so scared of my feelings , i avoiding him since i realize he has the same feelin for me even his saying” i love u” bhest…it makes me feel bad…..im so scared,wt f the time comes he will soon leave me …im a serious person being so realistic practical and honest …..haixt he has alot of frnd but im his only one bsfrnd…..
@AnaLauruhh i would say in a nutshell: I care about her so much, I dont want to mess her up. I am not good enough for her right now. even if it means she finds happiness in someone else. I actually hopes she finds someone else. there you go, typical Capricorn self sacrifice right there for you. I truly believe my sacrifice is for her benifet, i just care about her that much.
@AnaLauruhh ewwww, you are not going to like this: me and my Gemini lady stopped talking. I am not even sure what happened, we went into a downward spiral real quick. we talked a little bit (5 minutes twice in 2 months) and the cause is me. I am just not ready to be with anyone, I warned her of this and told her to start looking somewhere else. I just dont want to waste her time. She tried hard but I had to cut her off, i honestly feel she is better off without me…nothing sad about it, just being realistic…I am not in a good spot right now to be with anyone financially and I dont want the responsibility of someone elses feelings. She is ok, she is a tough cookie and i do miss her but “It aint gunna happen”. As she would say “it is what it is”. it is a bummer but its for the best, I am grateful for her though and it was fun.
@ogresoulHahahahahaha thank you for the tips (:They are helpful!And it’s really nice to hear that geminis get capricorns talking because i had read that capricorns can’t stand it when people talk a lot!And i think i will try that tree joke hahayes you did forget two and three hahaAlso, what would be pushing it?We started talking Dec.17th (I remember because it was the day after the party where things got started) and there’s a Sadie Hawkins dance coming up(some time in February)….would asking him be pushing it?Sometimes i feel like he might not be interested because say if we’re messsaging, he will give a short reply but for example, i asked “Did you go?etc.” and he will reply “Yeah i went.” i then reply “Well how was it?” He say “It was alright. Why didn’t you go? Is that me just over reacting, me just used to guys who wil say a lot more, or are Capricorns just that way?hahaAnd i think it’s great that you have a young spirit!I bet you’re gemini lady friend loves it! (:
this may or may not help you much, but when i was younger people my age used to tell me I act like an old man/fuddy duddy/to serious and to “loosen up” ….now people my age tell me I need to take things a little more seriously or treat my like they are my mentor like I am so much younger than them and are usually in deep shock when I tell them “Um, we are basically the same age”. for example my supervisor was poking fun at me for carrying so many tools to a jobsite and i told him “i do not find my bag heavy and i like to have as many tools on me as possible so i didnt have to run back and forth to my truck” he scoffed and said “Haha, what to you get to my age and have pains in your back and body, you’ll stop carrying so many tools…you’ll see!” I asked him how old he was, he told me 43…..I didnt have the heart to tell him me and him are the same exact age….I didnt want him to feel bad. :-/
Hmmmm i forgot two and three. hehehe.
Well, Capricorns age in reverse. I have read that before and I believe it. I am much more lively than i was at 17. I was mega serious when i was a teenager and people thought i was 30 years old , lol. Now at 43, other people my age think I am much much younger. Me and my gemini lady friend spent at least 4 hours on the phone…our all time record is a little over 8 hours (that was a miracle for me, I usually spend 15 minutes max with anyone). Gemini’s can make a Capricorn talk alot, I have had male Gemini freinds and the same deal there, Cap’s and Gemini’s make great freinds, Gemini’s tickle our Capricorn funny bone. Try to be funny, Capricorns like dirty jokes, Dark topics, etc. Dark topics might be hard for a gemini but dirty jokes, sexy talk is easy for gemini’s. Hmmmm, tell him to tripped while walking in the park and you landed on a tree branch and you THINK the tree took your virginity….garuantee’d chuckle from your cap freind,lol. Ok you get the idea. I kinda feel wierd telling you to say that but one: your capricorn is way more mature than you think, even at his age and you as a gemini is way more intelligent at your age than the other signs. you two can be great freinds, just dont push the boyfreind/girlfreind thing so soon or you will frighten him off. TAKE YOUR TIME, he is a challenge for you and you’ll never get bored because capricorns are forever a mystery, even to ourselves… 🙂
@ogresoulthank you so much….well sometimes i’m afraid that we’re gunna run out of things to talk to because his replies are sometimes so short or general that i am kind of forced to start a new topic….how can i really engage him in a conversation?p.s we’re only 17..i dont that helps?haha
@AnaLauruhh sure anna, whats up?
@ogresoulHey Frank, I’m a gemini girl and I am kind of talking to this Capricorn guy and since you’re the only Capricorn on this site, I would really like to get some advise from you….
i recently broke it off with a Gemini woman (I am a capricorn). I thought she was magnificent…she didnt think so. We were great freinds but she wanted me to move faster than I wanted. she was great, she had everything I wanted..except she had no passion, she rejected romance, rejected passion, she called it fluffy B.S…she just wanted to have sex. I am sure it would have been pretty nice but I wound up breaking it off. Another thing, she wanted to change me so much I thought to myself “If i am that bad off in her eyes, why the heck is she even interested in ME in the first place” very odd woman. I just thought of the future and how much I might wind up disliking her so I fastfowarded the relationship to the very end quickly. I do miss her but its not going to happen.
Gemini woman here. I have been married to my Capricorn husband for 17 years. The above is the perfect description of us. The compassion and fire is eternal. As far as money goes, he has away of joking with me about it. I will call and say I went to the mall and can not believe I didn’t buy anything, he replied the sky opened and angels sang. and then told me if really had to have it i should. I guess my point is as a Gemini woman we do not like to told we can’t have something. he respects my individuality. So because of that I give back by realizing he is write , do I need it or do I want it. I see how these two signs are great together. We balance each other out. He is my best friend and my true love. Because of him we will have a retirement some day with all the bells and whistles from me.
I feel that geminis and capricorns are two othe most misunderstood signs. Gemini being a child at heart & capricorn always having the adult-like attitude can eaisly make this the best or worst combination. I recently ended a relationship with a capricorn male. Our differences were too strong, neither one of us were willing to compromise. We had more bad days than good, but the thing that I think made us hold on so long was that when we did have good times they had an unexplainable aspect to it. Something even bigger than magic. Gemimi and capricorn are by far not the perfect couple, but with work they sure can make imperfection look good.
im a gemini female with d ease of being wit one man without wanting to explore oda men…. iv got a capricorn boyfriend and its bin far from dat fairytale luv but has bin wonderful. we’v bin 2geda for 2yrs nw
I am a gemini woman and have been with a capricorn man for 13 yrs. We have the best marriage in the world. It takes alot of respect but it is what it is. He saves the money and I love to spend it. After we got that worked out everything has been wonderful…We are going strong.
” After we got that worked out everything has been wonderful…We are going strong.” Nice…work together, spend/have fun together…
HI! I agree with this last post, i dont spend money like crazy and my family will tell you that im cheap..LOL…..so maybe I have earth traits 🙂
I’m a gemini women and I’m the most frugal woman I know. I never spend any money, and save every penny I earn. I can’t believe this write up… it’s not true.
Gemini woman here. My capricorn husband and I have been married for 13 years. The assessment above is spot on. A few subtle differences – where we specific individuals are concerned – but pretty much on point. Although I can spend frivulously, I do feel more secure when money is in the bank. But I dont’ look at the bank account every day. He on the other hand, his mind is always on the Jerry McGuire “coin”; how he’s going to get it, where it’s going to come frome, where it’s going to go, allocate here, allocate there. BUT don’t be fooled… my man can SPEND as much as I can. Sometimes he is worse than me… I do depend on him to let me know what I can spend. We’ve bounced in our account more than once for not checking in… lol Every time I read a Gemini-woman, Capricorn-man compatibility profile, the word for gemini is PATIENCE. And the word form Capricorn-man is…. PATIENCE… what does that say?
My ex is a Capricorn. We were together 4 years, and he was an incredible, steadfast, dependable and romantic lover. He was also a little gloomy and very hard on himself. My passions were up and down, but he was always consistent. Our Gemini-Capricorn match was great. We’re still very close. He’s amazing. I’m now in love with a Taurus man. I think I like the stabilizing effect of earth signs.
I’ve been in love with a gemini girl for the last 14 years and I think she’s been wonderful.
Hows the gemini girl & capricorn boy married life??
Does the Gemini dominant over capricorn????